Attrition by Bloviation
When will he ever stop talking
You asked a simple question and the reply is rambling, incomprehensible,
self-serving, boring monologue that never ends. Your attempts to interrupt,
refocus, and get back to the business at hand are ineffective. No one can stay
focused through this. You are a victim of attrition by bloviation.Why
it Happens
The bloviating speaker may be deliberately trying to avoid an issue, disguise
a lack of information, change the topic, distract attention from your issue,
attract attention to his issue, recast an issue, indulge himself, avoid
responsibility, aggrandize, demonstrate
power , bully you, make you
uncomfortable, or just waste time, perhaps to avoid confronting an issue or to
delay a change. Alternatively this may just be the speaker's bad habit that has
persisted too long. Unclear expression, equivocation, or waffling may also
indicate unclear thinking, or a lack of commitment to a particular direction or
position. It is impossible to accurately attribute the action to an
intent without getting much more information from the speaker.
Consequences
How it Happens
Effective Defenses
Quotations
- Good writing is clear thinking made visible.
References
How to Use Power Phrases to Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say, & Get What You Want,
by Meryl Runion
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